At Flames and Flair, we don't just make candles; we craft sensory experiences that ignite the imagination and elevate any space. We are a God-inspired, family-owned and operated candle company dedicated to providing incredible scents and unique candle creations. What sets us apart is our unwavering commitment to creativity and quality. Each candle is a handcrafted masterpiece, meticulously created to look like delectable ice creams, mouth-watering cakes, savory pies, or even vibrant cocktails—transforming ordinary moments into extraordinary ones.

We believe in luxury that doesn’t compromise the planet. That’s why we use only the finest vegan gel wax, along with premium coconut and apricot wax, ensuring that every candle is as eco-conscious as it is elegant. Every Flames and Flair custom creation is hand cratfed in a reusable vessel. Our close partnership with Candle Science a local, globally esteemed candle supplier in Durham, North Carolina, allows us to source the highest quality materials without a middle man. In doing so, we save money which allows us to provide top tier products at affordable prices.

Whether you’re a restaurant looking to enhance ambiance, a hotel aiming to offer a signature scent, or a realtor staging homes with warmth and charm, Flames and Flair delivers bespoke creations that resonate with your brand’s essence. We also specialize in crafting custom candles for life’s most memorable events—be it a bridal or baby shower, a birthday celebration, or a heartfelt gesture of appreciation. With Flames and Flair, your special moments are illuminated with style, creativity, and a touch of Flair!

Welcome to Flames and Flair!

About Me

I am Melany Paden, Founder and CEO of Flames and Flair.

My company was birthed out of the greatest pain I've ever experienced, the sudden death of my precious mother and the deepest desire to heal from that loss. As a part of that healing process, Flames and Flair was born June 2022. My broken heart needed a way to heal and share the truth of God's Word, which is this: He will NEVER leave us or forsake us. Even in our darkest hour, He will be there. Even when it doesn't feel like it, I promise you, God, His love, and light are there. This I know for sure.

So, as I travel along this journey of hurt and healing, I'm putting this pain to use. God, I thank You for giving me Flames and Flair. I pray that the work of our hands brings love, light, and hope to every beloved customer. Let our products create a strong bond of connectivity and a sense of community that's filled with joy and peace! Lord please bless my children and my family as we bless your people. Amen!

"You, LORD, keep my lamp burning; my God turns my darkness into light." ~ Ps. 18:28

Meet the Team

Chief Creative Officers - Mikaela Alexander, Malcolm Alexander

Chief Technology Officer and Chief Financial Officer - Antoine Paden

One of the greatest joys in building Flames and Flair has been sharing this journey with my family—my husband Antoine, my daughter Mikaela, and my son Malcolm—as my business partners.

Their unwavering support and boundless creativity have infused this venture with a deep sense of fulfillment and unity. Each of them brings something extraordinary to the table:

Antoine’s business acumen and technical skills developed over 25+ years are unmatched.

Mikaela’s artistic creativity and pursuit of perfection keeps us striving for excellence, and

Malcolm’s attention to detail and the bigger picture keeps us grounded.

Together, we pour our hearts and souls into every candle, crafting not just products, but experiences. Flames and Flair is more than a company; it’s a labor of love, woven together with unique talents, a passion for connection and an unwavering commitment to excellence.