Flames and Flair

Custom Candle Creations & More

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The SOH Fragrance Collection is Here!

Custom Wax Blend

Our custom Coconut-Soy wax blend allows the candles we create for you to provide a lasting sensory experience with an array of aromatic fragrances to compliment your favorite space.

Unique Custom Fragrances

When curating our custom fragrance blends, we take special care to develop scents that smell extraordinary and evoke feelings of peace, vibrancy, sensuality and community

Phthalate Free & Non-Toxic

We create our candles with your health and well-being in mind. Our formula takes candles back to the basics, by using Eco-friendly, non-toxic ingredients.

Up To 72 Hour Burn Time

Our candle creations are long-lasting and our scents linger long after you extinguish the flame.

Reusable Vessels

Many of our creations are in vessels that can be reused after you have finished burning your candles!

Seasonal Creations

Custom candles specially crafted to capture the essence and ambiance of the season. These candles evoke the scents and sights associated with autumn and winter.

Candles in reusable drinkware created to look and smell like your favorite cocktail and are guaranteed to spark conversation!

Cocktail Creations

Candles that range from whimsical to nostalgic that not only smell amazing, but also make your heart smile and leave a lasting impression.

Custom Candles

Candles in reusable mugs with scents designed to evoke your warmest memories and coziest connections.

Mugs of Love

Candles created with our signature scents to fit in any space and enhance every mood!

Candle Corner

About Me

I am Melany Paden, Founder and CEO of Flames and Flair.

My company was birthed out of the greatest pain I've ever experienced, the sudden death of my precious mother, and the deepest desire to heal from that loss. As a part of that healing process, Flames and Flair was born June 25, 2022. My broken heart needed a way to heal and share the truth of God's Word, which is this: He will NEVER leave us or forsake us. Even in our darkest hour, He will be there. Even when it doesn't feel like it, I promise you, God, His love, and light are there. This I know for sure.

So, as I travel along this journey of hurt and healing, I'm putting this pain to use. God, I thank You for giving me Flames and Flair, we aim to make You and my precious mama proud. I pray that the work of our hands brings love, light, and hope to every beloved customer. Let our products create a strong bond of connectivity and a sense of community that's filled with joy and peace! Lord, please bless my children and my family as we bless your people. Amen!

"You, LORD, keep my lamp burning; my God turns my darkness into light." ~ Ps. 18:28

Here's What Our Customers Are Saying...

I just wanted to let you know that my candle is absolutely amazing! The candle burns even and the scent fills the room. I've gotten so many inquiries about this candle and I send them right over to your social media. The creativity, the look, the smell, all top tier!

- Umeko Favor

Love my Flames and Flair candle! The scent is like a "welcome home" everytime I walk into my house. Burns evenly and 20+ hours so far and still enjoying it. Can't wait for my next scents, I know I'll be equally satisfied.

- Robin Mathis

Utterly captivated by the candle's scent! As soon as I lit it, a wonderful smell filled my room. I like that the scent lingers in my room even after I blow out the candle because it helps me relax. And let's not even begin to discuss the appearance! Absolutely gorgeous!! I chose the scent and the look I wanted, and she delivered exactly what I had imagined! Without a doubt, I'll be making more purchases in the future.

- Giardina Frank

Flames and Flair has done it again!! This apple pie candle couldn't get any better! The smell of apple pie is all in the air in my dining room and I haven't even lit it yet! It's fantastic! I have had so many compliments on how it looks and how it smells! I would add FABULOUS in front of Flames and Flair!

- Traci Medley Very satisfied customer!

Chief Creative Officers - Mikaela Alexander, Malcolm Alexander

Chief Technology Officer and Chief Financial Officer - Antoine Paden

Meet The Team

Flames And Flair Drinkware

Has officially launched!

Shop Our Latest Collection Now!

Buy the cup or get the cup containing our Melanin Magic candle

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* 4/13/24 ~ Women's Empowerment (1:30-10pm) - Raleigh PNC Arena 1400 Edwards Mill Rd, Raleigh, NC